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‘Baby Einstein’ DVDs Recalled

When my Simone was 6 months old, I was looking for some educational DVDs which she could watch on a regular basis. As much as possible, I refused to let her watch TV but since I am at work during her active hours, I cannot have full control on this especially when her adult carers themselves can’t stop from watching TV. So the best alternative I could think of is to allow her to watch ‘educational shows’.

I saw her interest in ‘TV’ when she was 4 months old. Her father was watching ‘Hulk’ the movie when she was suddenly awakened by the loud sound effects (naturally!). After the movie, we asked her what she saw and, surprisingly, she raised her two arms and made a ‘grrrrrrrr’ sound as if imitating ‘Hulk’! We couldn’t stop laughing!

I have read about ‘Baby Eintein’ DVDs in blogs and websites. I didn’t immediately go to video shops and grabbed a copy. After all, its S$16 retail price per DVD isn’t cheap so I went to ebay to look for used ones to try it out first. Fortunately, there was a huge lot (about 30 titles) of used Baby Einstein DVDs for bidding and the best thing of all is the starting bid was only a dollar! I watched this item and eventually placed my highest bid at S$60. If I won the bid, each DVD would only cost S$2. It would’ve been a steal! The bidding amount went as high as S$99 and I was willing to go all the way since it will still turn out to be a lot cheaper than buying each of the DVDs in its retail price. Unfortunately (or fortunately as I later found out!), I didn’t win. I was outbid by S$5 at the last TWO SECONDS of the bidding process!

Fast forward to a year after, I came across a Baby Einstein Mozart DVD in a leading bookstore. It costs S$14. Although I have bought a lot of other ‘educational DVDs’ for my little one like Dora the Explorer and Barney which costs a lot less than Baby Einstein, I still gave in and parted with my $14 just to try it once and for all. After all, my kiddo loves music! I played it to my toddler and as with anything new, she enjoyed it at first viewing but totally ignored it when she saw it the second time!
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I must admit I was totally disappointed with the DVD. The back cover describes the DVD as –

“Acclaimed by parents, this vibrant, award-winning musical feast for little eyes and ears exposes babies to the splendor and delight of classical music. Treat yourself and your little one to mesmerizing, multi colored images accompanied by enchanting versions of Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart’s most popular compositions. It’s a fun way to share the joy of discovering music — and the world — together!”

but it was nothing but a showcase of colourful and moving objects while Mozart was playing in the background! There wasn’t even a coordination of the video and the music! I really felt cheated and totally wasted my money on it!

And so when I read this news on Yahoo! on the massive recall of Baby Einstein DVDs, I wasn’t surprised at all and just glad that I only wasted my money on one DVD! I just hope Mums out there who spent on a significant amount of these Baby Einstein DVDs get refund from Disney!

It’s an important lesson for us all Mums not to be easily deceived by these ‘educational products’. Sure, all Mums want their kids to be smarter (I, too, was a victim!) so we rely on technology to help teach our kids but I guess, as always, nothing beats ‘human’ teachers and we, Mums, are always the best teachers to our little ones!

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Conversations with my 19-month-old

My little one turned 19-month-old yesterday. Allow me to share with you BabyCentre.org’s update on my toddler I receive monthly to keep track of her development. By the way, if you’re on your way to becoming a new mother or is just a new mother, try signing up at BabyCentre.org, it’s a great resource for Moms and moms-to-be.

19 month old

This month, you’ll notice that your toddler’s powers of observation are getting sharper. She’ll laugh at something that’s obviously wrong — like calling a giraffe a zebra or calling a brother a sister. And she’ll notice when a favourite toy is missing an eye or has lost a patch of fur. Her language skills are maturing, too. Although you may understand less than half of what your toddler says, she understands most of the words you use around her. She may also put together pairs of words, like “Me go” or “You put”. The best way to encourage her budding speech? Talk to her.

Indeed, I have noticed her blurting out words here and there. Her vocabulary has widened although I have stopped from reading books to her at night since she preferred her Dora, Blue’s Clues, and Barney. (Although I did resume reading to her at night last night so she can pick up more words.) I must give credit to these kiddie shows too since she picks up words from these shows. For instance, she knows how to ask for Dora and Barney by saying Dora and Barney or to answer ‘Oh, man!” when somebody shouts ‘Swiper, no swiping! Swiper, no swiping!’

She can also carry a mini-conversation with me. I can already ask her to pick up her things on the floor or to pick up something to give to me or to her nanny. She can communicate what she wants be it water, her milk, her favorite TV shows, her favorite pillow, her book, or if she feels sleepy. She can also indicate a yes or a no by nodding or shaking her head.

During her routine 18th month check-up and also for her last vaccination (DPT booster), her pediatrician asked me what words is she already articulating. Ironically, I was lost for words. Too many I couldn’t single out a few. Maybe because I was also taken aback since the doctor expressed her concern on my toddler’s speaking ability. “I have not heard her speak ever since” to think that it was only the second time she saw my kiddo, the first one was when my kid was 13 month old for her measles vaccination. I assured the doctor that my baby is a lot more talkative than kids her age and that if there is any concern like that, I would be the first one to voice out that concern.

True, I may not understand more than half of what she’s babbling but I’m just glad that her vocabulary is getting wider and that she can already communicate to us what she thinks and more importantly what she wants.

They say kids from 0-5 can learn 5 languages at the same time. Hmmm…I am already thinking of French lessons for my 19 month old! :-)

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Separation Anxiety

My 19-month-old is getting clingier than ever! I went away for a work-related travel to Bangkok for a week and when I came home, she made me feel she did not see me for a month! Sweet, I know, and I am cherishing every moment of it because I know those moments could be easily gone when she grows older!

She never wants to leave my side; she does not even allow me to go to the toilet to pee! She would run after me to the toilet and knocks the door heavily while loudly shouting ‘Mama’! She even wants to lay her head on my lap whenever I am in front of my laptop working (I sit on a sofa in front of a small table where my laptop is, so there’s plenty of space for her to lie down beside me on the sofa). Often, she would squeeze herself in between the desk I am working on and my lap for her much-needed cuddle! At night, on our bed (she sleeps beside me because my husband works in another place and only sees us every month), she would put her head on my tummy while she thumbsucks her way to dreamland!

I would like to wish she’d be like this forever because it melts my heart every time she wants a cuddle from her mother. But it can get tough especially when I have to leave the house to run some work-related or personal errands or to simply go to the gym.

I am well aware this is just a phase in her growing-up years and, soon, she might want to completely want independence from me. When that time comes, I know I have to give it to her even if it will break my heart. But, in the meantime, I will just cherish every hugging and cuddling and kissing moments I share with my little girl!

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